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Tuesday, August 12, 2014
FIVE IMPORTANT LESSONS ABOUT PRODUCTIVITY
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After graduating from college in May last year, the Canadian Chris Bailey received two great full-time job offers, but refused them.
He had a plan and accepting any of these proposals would keep him from putting it into practice.
During 12 months, Bailey and tested read everything he could find on the subject of productivity, sharing his findings on the site that bears the name of the project: A Year of Productivity.
His goal was to become as productive as possible - and help people to benefit from his discoveries.
The experiment earned 197 articles during this period, but he published a summary of the most important lessons learned. Here are five of them:
1 - Learn to choose well your tasks in every area of life
We may have countless things to do in different areas of life (work, education, health, mind, finances, relationships, etc.), but you must sort these tasks according to their worth in improving each of these areas.
Most of them will only consume your time and energy and will not bring remarkable results at all.
On the other hand, there are some who alone can give you a tenfold return. Discover which ones are they and focus on them.
2 - The most effective tips are the most clichés
How cliché is to say that the most important tactics to be productive are eating well, getting enough sleep and exercising?
But know that no matter how silly they may seem, they have proved the most efficient for Chris Bailey. "I think behind the clichés there is such a powerful truth that people feel compelled to repeat them so often they end up losing their value," he wrote.
"But as someone who has tested hundreds of techniques to better manage his time, energy and attention in the last decade [because he has been researching the subject thoroughly before starting the project] I can state that:
nothing has contributed more to my productivity than eating well, sleeping enough and doing physical exercise".
3 - The three main ingredients for productivity are time, energy and focus
Bailey found that no matter which techniques he used, they would always involve better managing one or more of these three factors:
time, energy and focus.For him, these are the three key ingredients for consistent productivity.
If you have lots of energy and focus, but not to manage your time well, eventually devoting many hours to the wrong tasks you wont get the best results.
If you are good at managing your time and have a lot of energy, but doesn't have enough focus, you will be distracted and procrastinate.
And if you have focus and know how to manage your time, but do not know how to manage your energy, you can waste it on less important things.
Therefore, it is essential to have these three skills.
4 - Working too hard for too long is bad for your productivity
Working nights in a row and not stopping even to lunch calmly may give the impression that you are doing a lot, but definitely doesn't make you a more productive person in the long run.
"In an experiment that lasted a month, I alternated between working 90 hours a week and 20 hours the following week.
Then I discovered that the productivity was equal in both, for a simple reason:
when I limited the time I would spend on a task, I forced myself to devote more energy in less time so that I could complete it quickly.
When had more time to work, I tended to procrastinate more and work on activities that give me less results (as we mentioned in the first item), and thus lose more time"states Bailey.
5 - Keep in mind that being productive has to do with how much you achieve, not how much you generate
Be gentle with yourself. When you are too focused on being more productive, it is common to make the mistake of focusing on numbers:
how many pages or words he wrote and read, how many hours he worked, how many emails answered, how much money earned...
The problem is that, according to Bailey, "unless you work in a factory, measuring your productivity based only on how much you produce will give you a limited overview of how productive you really are."For example, writing a text of 100 words that efficiently condenses what would be written in 500 does not mean you produced less - means you produced better.Replying 200 emails might give the impression that your morning was a success, but were these messages more important than any other single task you could have done instead?
Here comes again the discussion of the value of the tasks, and how they contribute to make you feel satisfied not only at the end of the day, but in the end of the week, month and year.
Furthermore, one must keep in mind why one wants to achieve certain goals and not lose sight of that objectives, or else ones job satisfaction goes away and the productivity will lose its meaning.
Finally, Bailey added another point, to keep motivated, it is still necessary to be kind to yourself.
Being more productive requires a tremendous effort, but pushing yourself too much is unreasonable.
You are trying to make positive changes in your life, then it is important to maintain a positive attitude toward yourself.
Monday, August 11, 2014
Learn How to Control your Dreams
Any time during a dream, you stopped, looked around, noticed the strange atmosphere or events and realized "hey, I’m dreaming"?
If yes, congratulations, you had a lucid dream.
This kind of dream happens when in it happens a "conscious awareness" when we relate to something deep within the dream.
This results in an experience of which we have a very clear and sharp memory, and we have control over our actions and even in the course of the dream itself. Meaning that, from the moment you realize you're dreaming, you can simply do and be whoever you want, with no worries!
You can give hundreds of slaps in the face of your boss without getting fired, score a goal in the final of the World Cup or maybe even go flying through the city fighting crime. You can even make decisions and solve problems that could not while you were awake.
A easy and fast explanation of what is a lucid dream would be "dreaming while we know that we are dreaming," as researcher Stephen LaBerge, one of the leaders in the study of the phenomenon, describes it
Research conducted in sleep laboratories reported so far show that lucid dreams occur in the last sleep cycles. Are the late REM stages, where the period of most intense dreams is larger. This means that in a night of sleep, you need to sleep more than six hours to start to achieve the best sleep stages, and thus have chances to stay conscious while dreaming..
How to do it?
Several universities around the world continue research in this field, developing techniques and learning more about the effects of lucid dreaming, as do independent agencies like LaBerge’s "Institute of Lucidity".With this, some techniques have been developed to facilitate the intentional lucid dreaming, which do guarantee results, and are widely used by lucid dreamers and researchers.
Some of them are:
Have a "Dream Journal"
The concept is that every day when you wake up you describe how it was your dream.
Whether or not remember the details of places and people present in it, just write down as many things as you can. Use a notepad, notebook, mobile phone or tablet, it is important to write down every day as soon as you wake up. There are even apps that help you in this diary, one of them is Awoken, available for android.
The important thing is not to leave it to write later, because we know that after 10 minutes you will remember nothing more than dreamed.
This technique aims to help you to remember your dreams, because if you can not remember them is because they are not very vivid, and so the likelihood of you getting a lucid dream is low. Besides, if you can get one, chances are you do not remember what happened next.
Reality testing
Look at the clocks
When you are in a dream, he will be crazier than Batman. If you look at him for a moment and it is showing a time, look again because it will be different... Numbers, letters or symbols… you never know what the clock in the dream world can show. During this period, which predominates in our mind are the areas responsible for creativity and imagination, why is so difficult to read text or numbers.
Look into the mirror
It is also a great test because inside a dream he can show several things, and hardly one of them will be your exact reflection.
Look at your own hands
Perhaps the most practical test to do during the day. Stay for a few seconds looking at your hands, if they behave normally, do not change their size, shake, get blurry or do anything out or ordinary. A widely used technique is also pulling a finger, if he starts to stretch as you pull, there are two possibilities: either you are dreaming, or you’re elastic-man.
Pinch Yourself
That story of the "pinch me to know if I'm dreaming" really works. You are able to pinch yourself in dreams without it being painful, while in really life, it does cause pain.
Remember what you did a few minutes ago
This only requires some gray matter. Do you remember how you got here? Where were you 15 minutes ago? What were you doing? And before? If you do not remember, chances are you are dreaming, or you've got Alzheimer's.
But if you remember all this, means you are awake because there is no continuous sequence of events in dreams. There you are quietly at home cooking, and suddenly you’re inside a of a pirate ship, to then appear in school.
These tests do not guarantee that you can have lucid dreams.
There are people who have succeeded without ever having done anything like that, while others have tried everything but have never had even one. And some people notice that they are dreaming, but they get so excited that end up just waking up.
Since you spend a third of your life sleeping, why not try to enjoy some of that time to go flying around, have superpowers and do whatever you want?















